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Memories of another time: Dilip D’Souza

November 26, 2010

Guest post by DILIP D’SOUZA

The anniversary began, for me, with a phone call. Someone I haven’t heard from in some years, mother of a soldier who died fighting for India in Kashmir. Her voice faltered several times during our conversation, and I could hear her tears. “Look at the tamasha,” she said, “over remembering the people who died on November 26 2008. Yet do we remember my son? Do we remember so many others” — and here she named several soldiers — “who died facing bullets on our border? Really do we remember people who died for no reason?”

“If we have a remembrance for one,” she said, “I want it for all. I want it for everyone who dies like this. Otherwise we wonder, what did our sons die for?”Her words, her tears, left me chastened.

And so I thought: on this day that we remember 170 who died two years ago, let me ask some questions about memory:

  • Why do we remember 26/11, but not 25/08/03? Why not 1/11/84 (and several bloody days that followed)? Why not 7/12/92 (and several bloody weeks that followed)? Why not 12/3/93? Why not 28/2/02 (and several brutal weeks that followed)? Why not 11/7/06?
  • Who remembers how many Indians died in each of those atrocities? 25/08/03: 52. 1/11/84 and later: 3000. 7/12/92 and later: 1000. 12/3/93: 270. 28/2/02 and later: 2000. 11/7/06: 210.
  • Who remembers the bomb at Matunga station on 29/10/93, that killed a well-known Gujarati playwright? What was his name?
  • What happened on 25/1/99, when 22 Indians were slaughtered? Or on 1/12/97, when 61 Indians were slaughtered?

You know I could go on.

Are only some of those events to be labelled terrorism, the others not? Which ones were which, and why? Does it say something about us that we have to jog our memories about massacres, and once we remember them we immediately seek to classify them as terrorism and not terrorism? (Didn’t you do that?)

Now try these two last questions, and I trust they won’t need you to jog memories:

  • Was there anyone among those hundreds of Indians who did not feel terror as death came to them?
  • When we remember Salaskar, Kamte, Ombale, Unnikrishnan, Karkare — why do we not remember Kalia, Shabiyullah, Kapadia, Bishnoi?

(Dilip D’Souza is a writer and journalist in Bombay. He is author, most, recently, of Roadrunner: An Indian Quest in America. He blogs at Death Ends Fun.)

7 Comments leave one →
  1. Ajay Brar permalink
    November 26, 2010 1:49 PM

    Because life in India is cheap. 26/11 will too be forgotten in time. Every other date has…

  2. November 26, 2010 6:30 PM

    We are remembering 26/11 with such fanfare, because, it suits us (I mean our rulers, media barons, all clients of Niira Radia and others like them), as well as our imperialist masters. Raising of Pakistani threat & terrorist’s bogey, earns billion dollar orders for American armament traders. No doubt we have a right to demand justice for 26/11 victims. But why those, who are so vociferous in seeking punishments to the perpetrators of 26/11 are mum about punishing the perpetrators of November Anti-Sikh pogrom at Delhi & other places, genocide of Muslims in Gujarat, Bhopal Gas tragedy etc.?

  3. mimansa permalink
    November 26, 2010 8:53 PM

    because it was attack on the elite..
    how many remember the day for the attack on CST station.. everyone remembers it only for the attacks on the 5 start hotels!

  4. ajit permalink
    December 3, 2010 12:10 AM

    “Why do we remember 26/11, but not 25/08/03?”

    Who is this mysterious ‘we’ of the uncertain memory ?

    How is it possible to say “why do I/we not remember ?” ? How can one speak of an that one does not remember ?

  5. November 27, 2010 6:40 PM

    Really.. I too was wondering , is it not going overboard? We are sorry, but not to this extent of show!
    Tamasha indeed.


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