Women are labeled as ‘complicated creatures’ by men, who ‘believe’ they are all sorted out. Being a woman in this world is difficult because they have to deal with these know-it-all-machos. All men do is joke about how trying to understand a woman is like playing a “Sudoku-Jenga puzzle surrounded by Rubik’s cubes strapped to a terrorist screaming at you in another language.” While in reality, it is the men who are guilty of making women feel confused and clueless. It is understanding ‘what men want,’ where the real problem lies because there are countless guides helping men understand what their partners expect from them. For women, there is barely any help.
Why is this the real problem? The answer is pretty simple; men are not as expressive as women. Mostly, girls have the ability to express their emotions, be it shouting in anger or crying in disappointment. Men, on the other hand, tend to have reserved personalities. They will not express if they want to cuddle with their partner in bed or want to be spanked, for that matter – just an example!
When looking at the big picture, the strong and determined men, who claim to know everything, are guilty of giving their partners mixed singles, making the other end up confused and clueless. All women, struggling to figure out men and being labeled as ‘complicated creatures,’ kudos to you. This is not an easy job! It is time you level up your game and save your men from disappointment.
Give your partner exactly what they want by discovering things that men like in a relationship but aren’t vocal about!
They want to be Called ‘Sexy’
Well, not necessarily sexy, but men, just like women, crave compliments. You know how a compliment from your men makes your day? This is exactly how it makes them feel. Most guys will try to act ‘cool’ by pretending they do not like the ‘praise,’ but these hard-shelled softies love it when their partner compliment them.
Apparently, men have created an image where they can put on anything that is clean, but in reality, things are a bit different. Even boys wish for their girls to notice how the sleeves of their t-shirt fit their biceps and the way their jeans enhance their ‘assets.’
So, if your man looks handsome, sexy, or hot – say it out loud and let them know!
They Want to See Their Partners Boss-up in the Bedroom
Men are often associated with titles that make them appear as the dominant ones. Well, this is because of the image that men have created. Things are quite different behind closed doors. Men will probably never tell you this, but the ‘pleasure’ they get from their women taking over in the bedroom is unmatchable.
Men want their partners to take charge, be the boss in bed, and unleash themselves on them. While you may be giving the love of your life a chance to lead in bed, they are wishing for something entirely different. Suggest sex toys for men, give directions, express the wildest fantasies, and lead the way.
If you don’t know how to use a sex toy, you can easily find your way through it – together.
Behind closed doors – be the guide and instructor your man expects you to be!
They Don’t Always Like to be the Initiators
The world that we live in expects men to be the initiators, whether it is a proposal or a task as simple as a ‘good morning’ text. Surprisingly, as much as men want to be the dominant ones, they don’t always like to be the initiators. They absolutely love it when their partners are the first to text them in the morning—it kind of makes their day. From the first day, it is a boy who approaches a girl, asks them out on a date, calls them after the date, so on and so forth.
When men wake up and unlock their phones with one eye open, seeing a text from their partner lifts their mood and gives them the motivation to wake up!
If you are used to getting his texts at the start of the day, it is time to switch and make your man feel like a king!
They Want to Feel Loved
It is always women who are talking about their partner’s arms being a safe place for them. It is the same for the boys as well. They feel the safest when they are with their partners and want to be loved and be taken care of – after all, they are humans too, right?
Hug them tight, play with their hair, pat on their heads, hold their face in your hands, and tell them how you feel. Making a partner feel secure and loved is as much as girls’ responsibility as it is of the boys.
The sense of security and satisfaction that men experience when their romantic partners treat them like little babies that men really are from within is beyond anyone’s comprehension.
They Want to be Listened To
It is funny how there are hundreds and thousands of relationship experts pushing couples to talk. They are emphasizing ‘communication is key’ but even then, only men are persuaded to listen to their partners. It is important to understand that communication works both ways; if you expect your man to listen to you, then you need to do the same for them too.
Talk to them, ask them how they are feeling, and let them know that you are listening. Try listening to them without saying a word, and you will see how easily they open up. The bottom line here is not to judge men but to just listen.
They Want You to Be Clingy and Physical
As much as men love their women to be independent and mature, they love it when they get intense attention from them. Men crave attention from the women they love. Who says boys do not like clingy girlfriends? Be clingy and physical with them. Caress their napes, rub their hair, play with their ears, hold their hand, and make your relationship more ‘physical.’
It is not always about sex; men love gentle touches, play-time spanking, and cuddling – they just don’t show it!
Love, respect, communication, and attention – both men and women crave for this in a relationship. Understanding the needs of your partner is essential. If you wish your man to be loyal and want the relationship to last long, you need to hear the unsaid words and understand exactly what your men feel and desire.
While you can cry, shout, scream, and laugh, understand that you cannot expect this from your men. No matter how much they try, expressing is just not their forte.
Make your relationship fun and exciting – don’t just fight over one thing that he did wrong. Love them with all your heart, and you will know exactly what to do!
Good luck!